Now, by looking at the invite above, I would not want to go. Would you? It would be good to think of this when the invite of self pity party comes.
When you think of a party, you may think of a moment of fun time. A moment of letting your hair down lol and enjoying yourself. This is the total opposite outcome of going to a self pity party. It will drain the life out of you mentally and physically. It will take your self esteem to a low level. You may forget that hope ever existed. It will have you comparing your life to others.
Self pity includes spending time and energy on what has not or what is not going on right in your life (hurts, hardships, bad times, etc). One sure way to decline an invite to one of these parties is to change your focus. …
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