Growing into growth

growing into growthIt seems am going in circles to get to my path in life…..Reasons unknown or maybe just to loose the unnecessary while gaining the necessary…..
When I’m putting a puzzle together…. I  pick up pieces…. Just to put down pieces….Am I confused or maybe it’s  just  to get the right pieces  to put the puzzle together correctly…..
Yesterday I failed heavily…..
Today I failed lightly…..  Am I a failure or am I learning how  to succeed for tomorrow…..

Freddie B

How to decline an invite to a self pity party?


how to decline invite to self pity party

Now, by looking at the invite above, I would not want to go.  Would you? It would be good to think of this when the invite of self pity party comes.

When you think of a party, you may think of a moment of fun time.  A moment of letting your hair down lol and enjoying yourself.  This is the total opposite outcome of going to a self pity party.  It will drain the life out of you mentally and physically.  It will take your self esteem to a low level. You may forget that hope ever existed.  It will have you comparing your life to others.

Self pity includes spending time and energy on what has not or what is not going on right in your life (hurts, hardships, bad times, etc).  One sure way to decline an invite to one of these parties is to change your focus. …

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Are you worrying? 2 Step Process to Stop



Worrying is carrying tomorrow’s load with today’s strength- carrying two days at once. It is moving into tomorrow ahead of time. Worrying doesn’t empty tomorrow of its sorrow, it empties today of its strength.”  Corrie Ten Boom

That statement above really touched me because I have found myself participating in worrying and it causing me to not work on things in my life that I can improve or resolve. I mean after all the worrying about a situation that I can not do anything about, I am too tired to focus on working on situations that I can do something about.  I am too tired to focus on enjoying life.

Have you ever been going through a situation and all you find yourself doing is worrying?  I mean just worrying, worrying, worrying nonstop.  Does it really help your situation? I can answer that quickly. No.  I can say that I…

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      “ARE YOU SERIOUS”  is the best expression to show when Negativity speak..
       Drama has vacated your life when you let the thoughts of Positivity peak..

Fear is such a coward when Courage decides to appear..
Doubt cries for help as Confidence pushes  with enormous strength saying, “GET OUT OF HERE”..  
                    “Oh” “Oh” “Oh”                 Positivity, Courage, and Confidence have took over by invading the flesh..
                    “Impressed”.. “Impressed”..
      “Happy and Impressed”..                                                                   Step by Step by Step, can you see the Process for the Progress..

Freddie B